On Big Think. This video relates to the person you are “dating” but the same concepts apply to other areas of our lives as well: our boss at work, a friend in college, and even some pastors in churches:
1. They play on their pity. They excuse their bad behavior with excuses.
2. Narcissistic. They believe the world centers around them.
3. Charming and manipulative in crowd. Controlling in private.
What should we do:
1. Watch their behavior, not their words.
2. Get a second opinion.
3. Don’t cover for them.